The problem that has no solution…

Posted by: vidhya  /  Category: Opinions

My mom has been having a huge problem with servant maids of late and I have never seen such a problem….that’s why I thought it was worth blogging.
It starts like this…
I was due for delivering a baby and so was at my mom’s place. We had a maid working for 10 years in our house. [...]

Even mothers need to learn!

Posted by: vidhya  /  Category: Opinions

This is the nth time I hear about how they train husbands n wives to take care of the baby that they are shortly expecting. there are classes held which are compulsory for both to attend. Every bit is taught. Once the little one arrives, the parents are prepared and they have more of their [...]

Indian TV serials…huh!!

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My TV watching has reduced drastically in the last few years…for various reasons….but I manage to watch some serials on my laptop….
Now when I say serials… I don’t mean the ones on saas bahu….I watch serials like “Friends”, “How I met your mother”, “burn notice”….
I was trying to analyze why is it that I don’t [...]

Does it really matter?

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I am always of the opinion that one must own anything so that it is of some use…I must have a camera if I would use it…same would be with a wasing machine. If I want to own a fully automatic machine over a twin tub…that must be purely on my usage.
I know a lot [...]

Reassured… I am not wrong!!

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There have been lot of discussions that I have had with my colleagues and friends regarding my values. I ave a set of priciples and I try my best to follow them strictly…altho I am ridiculed many a times. This has been true whether it was about choosing my life partner or executing tasks at [...]

Display of enthusiasm and passion

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I had written in my post about yani’s concert (http://www.allyouwannaknow.net/musicandme/2010/08/27/yani-new-music-in-my-life-full-of-passion/) …..about the kind of passion and enthusiasm that was expressed. it was amazing to watch the performance. how much the musicians enjoyed what they were doing…..I can bet that it is not possible for one to act that way..it done with so much enthusiasm. they [...]

Depression – Just get out to get it off….

Posted by: vidhya  /  Category: Opinions

I have started to believe strongly that depression is quite easy to tackle if you are busy. I dint intend to research the subject…but of late there are some experiences and meeting of some people that had lead me to observe certain patterns of behavior.
I dont want to make any detailed statements…there is no scientific evidence [...]

Every child is important

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Seemandham is such a nice ceremony actually performed to make sure that the baby to be born comes out healthy, calm and strong minded.
unfortunately everyone does it as a formality ….. many of them are irritated doing it…..some of them want to have it as a get-together party…..some of them just do it to show [...]

Religious rituals….all blind beliefs?

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It is very easy to say that all the religious rituals are superstitious beliefs and that they make no sense…. What is more difficult is to try and find the meaning in them. 
The religious rituals have been followed through for centuries….are we trying to say that we are the only intelligent people and that everyone [...]

I am just another cribber……

Posted by: vidhya  /  Category: General, Opinions

I was doing a really really loud thinking about why our country cannot improve…hubby was giving his insights…..and we reached a conclusion that the system is a circle and it is next to impossible to cut it ….
I am putting down all those thoughts into this blog….Its more than just thoughts….it is venting out my [...]